http://ladysunsetscales.tumblr.com/post/97663205661/having-an-existential-crisis

having-an-existential-crisis:

having-an-existential-crisis:

ladysunsetscales:

Okay, so I usually try to stay out of social justice issues, but once in a while. I feel like revisiting them. And, well, I’m kinda curious about one thing above all others.

If you Tumblr social justice users are so adamant about…

tumblr: where people make shitty posts in the tags being invalidating assholes and then get shocked when other people reblog them and add commentary and then call it bullying for good measure <333

it’s funny because you dont even have an argument

you’re just telling me to shut up and insulting me

tagged as: adorable people;  really;  so charming;  



mahouboy:

ladysunsetscales:

Okay, so I usually try to stay out of social justice issues, but once in a while. I feel like revisiting them. And, well, I’m kinda curious about one thing above all others.

If you Tumblr social justice users are so adamant about destroying gender roles and all that…

because “I wear boy clothes” is not what being trans is. I am trans because I am a boy. I have traditionally female primary and secondary sex characteristics, but they are not me, and I am not them. I didn’t realize I was trans because I “was a tomboy” or “shaved my head”. In fact, although I now identify as male, I still wear what would be considered feminine or “women’s” clothing. This chest is not my chest, this voice is not my voice and those pronouns, words, and name don’t belong to me because I’m not a woman.

there are a lot of people (on tumblr, irl, etc) who say/think they’re trans for those reasons, but they are not the ONLY trans people ever and there’s not even that many.

Also, it’s gross you’d phrase this as though being trans/non binary/etc started on tumblr.

It’s dysphoria, physical or societal, that makes people realize they are trans. Please do your research before “calling people out” like this.

(also these are some BIG WORDS for someone who’s sidebar says “I don’t give a shit what gender you refer to me as”.)

Nononono

That’s not what I was trying to say.

I’m talking bout the anti-truscum movement, which says you can choose your gender if you act outside of your gender roles. I’m talking about the people who make up new words for their so-called gender identity every other week as though it’s a fashion statement.

I didn’t mean trans people with actual dysphoria who take this seriously.

I apologise if my wording was wrong.

(Also I really actually don’t care, because my gender isn’t all that big a deal to me)




having-an-existential-crisis:

ladysunsetscales:

Okay, so I usually try to stay out of social justice issues, but once in a while. I feel like revisiting them. And, well, I’m kinda curious about one thing above all others.

If you Tumblr social justice users are so adamant about destroying gender roles and all that noise…then why do you enforce them so much?

Changing your entire gender identity because you were born a male but wear dresses sometimes only enforces gender roles further. Telling everyone you’re genderqueer because you have female sexual organs but have a shaved head and dress like a tomboy on Thursdays only encourages gender roles to stay the way they always were.

You aren’t a ~demigirl~ or any sort of transgender because of the clothes you wear or the hairstyles you get. Gender isn’t a fashion statement, and it should never be used in conjunction to fashion choices. Why does everyone on this website constantly contradict themselves in this whole gender argument?

pls delete ur blog.

tumblr: where bullying is ok if someone you’re prejudiced against doesnt agree with you <3

tagged as: moron;  



ty-cycle:

Dressrosa is running long as is, but I will be emotionally hurt if this cutie doesn’t get some action scenes, especially if she doesn’t get at least one without the need for Sabo being there with her.

Did I mention she’s so cute? Because she’s sooooo cute!!




cosmeticdisease:

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FLUFF




moskafleur:

eteo:

dweebscar:

inwhichifeelallthefeels:

cyanide123:

dweebscar:

dweebscar:

what if giraffes lived underwater

image

what a majestic creature

It would explain nessie

Oh my God. I have been waiting literally over a year to use this gif, and before I do, I want to thank you for the opportunity.

pardon

yOU FUFCKGN ASSHOEL I JUTS SPIT MY LATTE ON MY TABLET F UCK TOUOYU JESUS CHRIST

Best post I’ve seen this month




stopfeelingsohonestlyattackedrn:

imagine you’re bullied at school, your parents act like shit to you and the only thing that keeps you happy is tumblr. then you see things like “cis people suck” or “white people suck” and you feel a little hurt. and you see more  and more and  more and MORE guilttripping posts so you feel bad about yourself again. when you angrily reply to one of these posts, you get anon hate and you feel even WORSE. then somebody says “hey, its okay if you’re a cis and white? as long as you’re not an assshole.” thats mostly why these posts are made. so pls stop hating these “ignorant bigoted” posts and edit them cuz you’re not helping. at. all




wtffanfiction:

Fandom: Criminal Minds/Sesame Street

“‘Oh, my God! You taste like Skittles!’ Beth exclaimed before eagerly returning to her task.

'That’s right. Elmo wants you to taste the rainbow, bitch.'”

tagged as: o-oh;  






digg:

This excellent dad joke was hidden in the credits of Pulp Fiction




terminal-bisexuality:

60% of straight women say they would never date a bisexual. 50% of straight men say they would never date a bisexual. 40% of gay men and lesbians say they would never date a bisexual. Bisexuals are obviously just greedy. They’re just bisexual so they can sleep with fewer people and lose opportunities for relationships based solely on their sexual orientation. 




frenums:

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missjcxox:

MissJCXOX




yayforkayla2:

tastosis:

anti-tucute:

cishaming:

ladysunsetscales:

if you call yourself ‘tucute’ you can stop right there

because there is nothing cute about transphobia

There isn’t anything cute about transphobia. That’s why tucutes exist, we help victims of transphobia.

oooomg look that this

there was been actual proof of dysphoria written by professionals and doctors with years of training, where the fuck did you pull “TRANS IS A FASHUN STATEMENT” out of your ass?

Tucutes help victims of transphobia by calling them scum and say gender is a choice. Right…




Tumblr Girl: Boys are so ugly and stupid lol. There's like maybe 5 hot guys and the rest of you are hideous.
Guy: Hey now, that's not very nice to say.
Tumblr Girl: Too bad. Women have it way worse in the real world when it comes to body image so a few jokes isn't gonna hurt you!
Guy: Men suffer from body image issues too you know. It's not just a woman thing believe it or not. How would you feel if I said those kind of things about girls? 'Girls are so ugly and stupid lol. There's maybe like 5 hot girls and the rest are hideous.'
Tumblr Girl: How dare you. That's horribly sexist and misogynistic!
Guy: I agree. But how come if you just switch the genders, it's okay?
Tumblr Girl: Because girls have it worse than all guys.
Guy: How do you know? Have you ever asked all guys about their self-esteem?
Tumblr Girl: No. But I have body image issues and I don't like when people make me feel ugly.
Guy: Neither do I.
Tumblr Girl: Oh well, this website is supposed to be a safe space for girls to vent their problems!
Guy: Why do you have to tear down others just to build yourself up? Aren't you a feminist? Isn't feminism supposed to be about equality?
Tumblr Girl: Yes, feminism is about equality and respect.
Guy: Then why are you saying that it's now okay for girls to make fun of guys but not the other way around? That doesn't sound like equal treatment, that sounds like you want special treatment.
Tumblr Girl: ......
Guy: Why do you think fighting fire with fire is going to solve anything? When has that ever worked? All it does is perpetuate cruelty and mistreatment.
Tumblr Girl: Well... because I'm angry!...?
Guy: I understand, but that doesn't mean you have the right to hurt others for no reason. How would you feel if someone treated you badly over things you can't control?
Tumblr Girl: I would feel bad.
Guy: Yeah. So isn't there the golden rule - treat others the way you want to be treated?
Tumblr Girl: Yeah, I guess so.
Guy: So how about you start treating others the way you want to be treated instead of being a jerk all of the time and trying to justify it.

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